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A legacy?
by Kim
Are you at the point in your life yet, where you have begun to think about what kind of legacy you will leave behind? I think about it sometimes. I don't have children, and that is the legacy that most people leave. I don't have a pile of money, so I can't leave behind the International Divine Design foundation.
Two things happened this week that made me think about it. My neighbor died. She was very old, with a bad heart. She still lived alone. She had no family, her only daughter died some years ago. It was a weird feeling watching another neighbor haul all of her belongings out onto the driveway and sell them in a yard sale.
It made me think about all of the stuff I like to surround me, to save in case I need it, to make my life easier. Is there really a point to having so much stuff?
And today, I was surfing and read this obituary. It is impressive to me, and I realized that what people think of me now, is how I will be remembered. Am I good with that?
It sure gives me food for thought, not seasoned with Vitamin C.......
Two things happened this week that made me think about it. My neighbor died. She was very old, with a bad heart. She still lived alone. She had no family, her only daughter died some years ago. It was a weird feeling watching another neighbor haul all of her belongings out onto the driveway and sell them in a yard sale.
It made me think about all of the stuff I like to surround me, to save in case I need it, to make my life easier. Is there really a point to having so much stuff?
And today, I was surfing and read this obituary. It is impressive to me, and I realized that what people think of me now, is how I will be remembered. Am I good with that?
It sure gives me food for thought, not seasoned with Vitamin C.......
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The Academic
by Kim
This is me right now. Sometime in the next two weeks I will finally be defending my thesis. I have dragged by feet about it, but no longer! Before the defense, I am making a 20 minute Power Point for my committee from which to work during the process. That is my task this weekend.
It's true I have learned a lot from the thesis process: about writing, researching, communicating, and about my topic. I have also learned that I really really really want this to be done.
The end is within sight. And not much Vitamin C was involved. They do not really like creativity in the thesis process. Facts rule the world of thesis writing. Cute and colorful counts for NOTHING! :)
I definitely would not mind a prayer or two in regard to this upcoming defense. Thank you!
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5 Things I Dug Up From My Past
by Kim
This post is an assignment from the Blogging Your Way class I am taking right now. It was assigned by the clever teacher, Holly Becker, who writes the amazing decor8.
One of the biggest things I have learned so far is about the kind of blogs that I like to read myself. I like to get to know the blog author, get a feel for her personality, and what drives her. The author is a huge part of the blog, right?
And that is interesting since I don't naturally divulge much personal stuff about myself. Now, knowing that it will help me to build community with all of you, I offer this for some insight into what makes me tick: Five things not many people know about me. I will also explore how the knowledge I gained from those experiences has remained with me.
Feel free to laugh. I have done some crazy things in my life.
1. Won a reading contest. Before first grade. I learned a love of reading and learning that is a part of me to this day. Maybe it is a reason that I have to be constantly learning, and am curious about a variety of things.
2. Stripped on stage. Immediately out of college, I took the role of Gypsy Rose Lee at the Bay CIty Players, a community theater. I did have to take clothes off on stage while singing, but come on folks, it was Bay City Michigan, midwest USA. They gave me a flesh colored leotard to wear so everything could remain G rated.
During that show, I learned that while sometimes the success of a project depends on you, it is really not all about you. I sprained my ankle in a big way in rehearsals and strained my voice singing songs too high for my range. It was my responsibility to take care of myself since I had the main role with the most stage time. So, when everyone else went out after rehearsal every night, I went home to rest, drink tea, and ice my ankle.
On opening night, the director took me aside to let me know that inadvertently, my name had been left out of the program! On me, but not about me. All in all, it was one of the most fun experiences of my life.
3. Delivered singing, tap dancing telegrams. After college, right after I moved far from home and I was trying to find direction, I tried it. It was humbling because I looked and acted ridiculous. They made me dress like cupid on Valentine's Day, diaper and all. But, it was the first unstructured job I ever had and I learned to focus and take care of business without a supervisor. I have worked freelance more than once in my life because I knew I could do it after that early experience.
Do they still do those things??
4. Built an airplane. The biggest craft project ever! I worked with my aviation engineer husband, so it was done correctly and for real. Turned out I was a great fiberglass man and I did the majority of it. I have not done fiberglassing since, but it did give me confidence about trying new things that seem too ridiculously huge to accomplish.
5. Roofed my studio. Yeah, it was awful. I have big respect for people who do that for a living. My take-away? Just because you can, does not necessarily mean you should. Choose what you take on by weighing time, effort, satisfaction, and end result. I thought saving money was wise but the time I spent up on my roof would have been way better spent doing something else. For me, it was tedious and boring, and I wrecked two pairs of jeans and a pair of shoes. I will never roof again. It is OK to say no way Jose if the project is not right for you.
Now it is your time to share. Tell me something crazy you did in your life and what lesson you learned from it that remains with you. I look forward to getting to know you a bit too!
Take Your Vitamin C!
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